Hope for Tomorrow

Tomorrow we are listed twice-- Damon's matter is listed first, and Sundi's is listed seventh. So, we'll be starting at 9am and probably ending sometime in the early afternoon.

We've had several conversations with family and friends this week who have said "Usually the day before your court date, I do this or that." It's funny that there is enough of a history to be able to say "usually, before your court date....". We usually enter each court date with a hope that it will be the last, and tomorrow is no different. But we also know that with each court date God has a plan-- and tomorrow is no different.

We want to re-iterate what a blessing it is to be the current parents of Sundi and Damon. And we wanted to say this ahead of our "success" so that we won't be accused of "selective retention"! We have no doubt that, if we receive a positive ruling, our kids will be far better off in our family than in the best orphanage on the planet. We are equally as confident that we will be far better off for having the privilege of having them as our son and daughter.

Please do not applaud us for our "patience" or "diligence" as we have earnestly sought to bring these adoption proceedings to a close. We are only doing what any of you would be doing in the same situation if it were your kids. Plus we're really not as patient as we sound! Even more importantly, please do not write off adoption as "impossible" based on the drama tied to our adoption. What needed to happen for us during the past year-- especially the last two months-- was impossible, but God made it happen.

Please rest assure that we are not normal. (Please stop vigorously shaking your head in agreement!) I mean, our situation is not normal. Besides, we've heard adoption is less painful than bearing children!

If adoption or foster care is something that you are seriously considering for your future, it is our prayer that our experience will be an encouragement rather than a deterrent. We've had several friends say "I don't have the strength to do what you've done", which makes us sad. First, it isn't true-- people have an incredible capacity for underestimating themselves and their God. Second, there are now more logistical resources and support than ever available. We just need to ask for help.

Would we have preferred an easier road? Absolutely. (Sorry to disappoint anyone fooled into thinking that we have some special spiritual gift.) I often think of the cheesy VISA commercials that show prices for random things, then have some sort of a warm-fuzzy picture at the end. Of course, the last scene is always labeled PRICELESS. But that really is what we feel when we look at our kids; they are a priceless blessing.

"I love you Sundi."
"No, no, no...I love YOU!"

"I love you Damon."
"Nooooo.......I wuv ew!"

We wouldn't trade it for anything.

PS-- Sorry about the recent lack of pics. We promise if we get our orders there will be pictures as well as words of joy!